Is Praising Children Bad?

Is Praising Children bad?

Well it depends on the kind of praise we give.

As you can see in the above graphic, it shows different kinds of praise: Descriptive, Appreciative, and Evaluative.

Take a moment to read those types of praise. Which kind of praise do you use most often?

If we are to be honest with ourselves, most would answer Evaluative Praise... it is the easiest kind of praise to give, and is the most common. Teachers, parents, and coaches all uses this kind of praise often. How do you feel about this kind of praise?

Should we say, "Good job!" to our children.
Experts share that it is more productive to tell people the "why" behind the praise, in a more specific and sincere way.

The following article explains nicely the negative power of praise when we say things like good job.
http://www.bluemangollc.com/june-23-the-negative-power-of-praise-why-you-should-stop-saying-good-job-to-your-children/

This video shares 5 ways to say things other than "Good job!"

I think it is so important to show children love an encouragement in our feedback to children.